"when things go wrong, as they sometimes will"

Life, happiness, trust, relations are some words which are perceived with assorted emotions by mind and conscious, varying from manas-to-manas (person-to-person) and even day-to-day.

On a day when everything seems to fall apart, in a state of annihilation; life is adjustment, happiness seems far off, trust sublimes and relations become complicated. Filling  a void, makes space for another somewhere. 

In this scenario it is advised to take advice from, someone, who has a good view of the whole picture. At this very moment abhijna (ubhij^na;direct perception) is required. 

Abhijna along with atma vichara (aatma vichaar; inquiry into the Self) is the best advice anyone can receive. Seeking advice is the first sign of loosing trust in self, trust in your actions, trust in your judgments  No one other than yourself can know how the shoe fits.

Taking a detailed overview of the situation and perseverance helps. Chose what you feel is good and right, keeping your mind and conscious in sync. Be who you want to be.

Doing things the way you want them to do gives, sometimes a little in beginning, but a sense of purna (poorn; fullness; completeness). As this sense of satisfaction and fullness grows it leads to the other,than previously perceived, brighter and greater meaning of  life, happiness, trust and relations.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde